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How can I make mediation easier?
How can I make mediation easier?
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Choosing divorce mediation can help you to save time and money, but it also requires a different approach than if you were going through litigation. You will still need to prepare for entering mediation, but you will go into it with an attitude that focuses on cooperation and negotiation.

Forbes explains that you have to begin with knowing what you do and do not want in the final divorce agreement. You also must be aware of how your wants and needs differ. Being aware of this difference allows you to better compromise, which is an essential part of the process.

Change your approach

You also need to approach the whole medication process with a business mindset. Push the emotions to the side for the process. If you look at it as a business deal, it can help you to keep a level head and to avoid letting yourself act based on emotions.

Understand the other side

It is essential to understand what your spouse may ask for in the agreement. Once you outline what he or she is likely to ask for, you can begin to identify his or her motivation. Knowing what is motivating your spouse can help you through negotiations. It can give you insight into what is possible as well.

Know your finances

You should also examine your financial state and what it will be like after the divorce. This will allow you to figure out the details of support discussions. You can figure out if you should ask for alimony or if you can pay it. It will also help with child support issues if you have children.