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Bringing negotiation skills to a divorce case
Bringing negotiation skills to a divorce case
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Even if a divorcing couple decides to mediate their split rather than opt for a standard divorce in Massachusetts, there still exists a need for negotiation. Knowing the finer points of this art is essential for a positive outcome for everyone.

With suggestions from HuffPost, divorcing couples have a better idea of what it means to compromise and negotiate in a divorce. The right tips can save a lot of time and help both parties start the next chapter of their lives on the right foot.

Understand current regulations and laws

Couples should work with legal professionals to learn about the most recent laws and regulations that pertain to the particulars of their divorce. For instance, specific laws exist regarding parenting plans and child custody. Such knowledge helps refine negotiations and steer them in the right direction.

Get a concrete picture of current finances

Finances often play a big part in divorce cases. Parties should know the difference between marital financial assets and individual assets. This is where a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement becomes of great help. Bringing in a financial advisor may grease the financial negotiation wheels.

Use the right words

As noted by, couples have to be careful with the words used during a divorce. Replacing potentially antagonistic words like “custody” with more encouraging words and phrases like “parenting plan” helps diffuse situations.

Differentiate needs and wants

What a person needs out of a divorce is not necessarily what she or he wants. “Needs” and “wants” look different to everyone, and divorcing couples need to personalize definitions for both words. Everyday essentials deserve more time and attention that nonessentials like art pieces.

Reading articles and books on conflict resolution is not a bad idea during a divorce. The right tactics can keep the process moving and free of tension.